Self-control belongs exclusively to people with vaginas.
The penis-controlled soul of a man is clearly more susceptible to moral lapses than the uterus-led moral compass of a woman.
So what kind of female confusions does Henderson aim to correct with his advice for understanding the male psyche?
I plugged in some simple facts, lazily wrote an intro text in English and clicked save. While setting up my POF profile, I was also cruising the Internet for just “friends.” One way I thought would work is through the expat site Amongst the little landslide of invitations for coffee, tango dancing, walks in the park that I received was a message from a photographer giving his number suggesting I whatsapp him to meet for a coffee. that could be more interesting than a little coffee date!
Despite the fact that I am installed with a vagina, I’m sure that when Henderson said “Every Woman” he didn’t mean me, as presumably his tips were designed to help women like the men they sleep with a little more, rather than want to block them from their contacts list.
No, it’s men—tens of thousands of them, maybe your husband, ex-husband, or boyfriend (or mine) among them—who seem to have found Henderson such a good spokesman for their frustration with their women.
The very night of his flight down south, I set to work with two missions: finding friends and setting up an online dating profile (the former will come in another blog).
It was time to revive Nicolette, my dating profile alter-ego.